In mandarin, it is simple 4 words proverb. chicken talking to duck.. means .. communication is HARD.
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When we are told that we are adults, we should be more sensitive to others feeling, it actually may translate to how much truth you would reveal to the public. I happen to just join the club, and still wondering IF I want to follow the belief.
One of my collegues from west, a very matured person, make me feel that, they have a very matured culture too in handling varios situation. She is professional in relationship and also very HIGH EG qualified too.
It is an ART. How much truth you want to put out there, may equal to how much less-friendly (in reverse to HOSTILE) you would be. YET, hiding the true self behind an encapsulated interface, would it make the situation worsen in future???
May I suggest AT LEAST one common practice to all the people in the world, when we are talking honestly (swear with heart), we should do the "wim-ga-bo" hand-sign as in the pocahontas. Thus, we mutually understand that the following contents are really truthful. It is not because of shity culture-respect excuse.
I am still wondering, what is wrong if the people of certain culture is mean and NOT friendly and hostile. If that is the way they live, do we have any right to force them change to our way. If that is how when they being truthful to themselves, do we want to make them fake smiling to us ?? May be, I should be more tolerable to stone face (including the one in my mirror).. so long I am a honest person to myself and others, I am a good person. Do you reckon that ?
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