Thursday, November 24, 2005

fundamentally unmarriageable

i think i am fundamentally unmarriageable.. it is just the spontaneous idea in my mind..
with all the math class i went through all these year while schooling, i simply know that the odds of two persons in love is freakingly small.
Yet, that is not sth. that I am surprise of. I would accept that if in our eastern culture, we do accept marriage that not based on love (or at least feeling to each other ), it did not occur to me that far at the other side on the earth, my lovely american friend is able to accept the concept so well.
Pardon me, that after so many years of imperialisme .. I simply believe that my people are much down to earth (aka materialistic and realistic), we strive to survive , making sure we are not going to die with famine. Hence, it is acceptable if we consider wedding a ceremony and marriage a companion ship to life.
I would want to believe that, at the other end of earth. The "westerners" would be more romantic, reluntant to accept anything less than "love".. apparently it is not.

May be.. it is the time, or the place. I am not ready to believe that the za za zoo butterfly when you fall in love will die eventually. If that so, why would I get a fixed partner in life ??
NONETHELESS , i know that someday i would regret. Those majority out there are choosing to settle with marriage, they must be correct. Otherwise they will not be the majority.


Somewhere out there ....

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